Spiritual South India

In India the cow is a revered animal but unfortunately most of the time I have seen “homeless” cows roaming city streets scavenging through piles of garbage looking for their next meal. It is quite a sad picture. I am always happy to see cows on fields eating grass… where they belong.

In the past few days I have noticed cows on the fields and on the streets with their bodies painted in bright colors and bulls with their horns adorned with strings and painted in red and blue. It turns out that this is part of a celebration in South India, the Mattu festival. The third day of the festival is called Mattu Pongal. Mattu means “bull” in Tamil and on this day they celebrate all cattle and the important role that they play in helping farmers with their crops on the fields. At least they have their day of recognition!


My travels in South India continue in the state of Karnataka where I made a quick visit to Bangalore.  I barely saw anything important in the city, just visited some food places near my hotel and rested a lot.  Mysore is a very pretty and touristic city, I happened to visit it during the long four-day weekend when Indians are celebrating the Day of Independence.  After not having done much in Bangalore I decided that I would see everything there was to see in Mysore in one day but since I was feeling lazy about planning anything myself, I went with a Lonely Planet recommended day-tour.  I joined a group of 20 people and boarded a gigantic bus; which would become our home for the next 12 hours.  We visited a lot of places in a rush, as it’s typical with these type of tours, but had a lot of fun.  I met other solo-tourists on the bus, Greta from Germany, Alex from Italy and Vikram from India.  Vikram was one of the first ones to board the bus with us that morning, as usual the “western” tourists were on time and the Indians were late, except for Vikram.  He was very eager to begin the day and make some friends as it was the first time that he had ever done anything by himself, without his wife and kids.  He was very surprised to find three people traveling by themselves in India.  When I told him that I was traveling around the world by myself, he became more surprised and confused.  He kept asking questions through out the day as to why on earth I would want to be alone like that.  I explained to him that I was hardly ever alone as it was really easy to meet people while traveling.  He was also very surprised to find out that I was forty and I had never married and had no children.  For him that was a harder thing to accept or understand than the solo-traveling.  He asked me how I could go through life without a family.  I explained to him that I had a family and friends and that someday I also hoped to find a special person and perhaps adopt a kid.  I think I confused him with this answer even more.  He kept saying that he needed to understand my choices but I told him that perhaps it was best that he didn’t try.  We had a lot of fun together, all four of us kept each other company through out all the different sites that we visited.  At the end of the tour Vikram told us that we had inspired him to start traveling on his own and he would begin right after retirement next year.  He was glad to see that Greta and Alex who were around his same age (60’s) were doing it themselves and they were enjoying it.  We were glad to open up his world a little bit.  🙂

We visited the Chamundi Hill temple and the Mahisahsura statue, the Nandi (bull); which is Shiva’s vehicle, the Maharaja’s Palace Ambavilas Mahal, and St. Philomena’s Church in Mysore.  In the late afternoon we went to another town called Srirangapatna where we visited the Daira Daulat (summer palace), we saw some of the Fort’s ruins and ended the day in the Brindavan Gardens.

Here are some images of Indian life around these places:

typical hair-due for women, adorned with flowers.

At the Chamundi Hill temple:

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the Nandi

The Palace:

_MG_2247thumb__MG_2196_1024I took the train to Hospet, nearby town to get to Hampi.  This was the best train experience with superb service; which I had never had before.  I met a nice American Conrad from Colorado.  He is a great photographer who accompanied me to see the temples and ruins in Hampi.  Hampi is a beautiful village, former capital of the Vijayanagara Empire.  This is a Unesco world heritage site with well preserved ruins of buildings and temples carved out of gigantic boulders.  During this round-the-world trip I have decided to try every type of accommodation (couch-surfing, hostels, home-stays, guesthouses) and I had yet to try camping.  While in Hampi, I decided to stay in a tent across the river Tungabhadra.  I enjoyed the fantastic views in the early morning of the sun rising over the ruins. 

the train platform after sunrise
the amazing tent hotel that I found just across the river from Hampi
this poor elephant is chained to the columns of the temple. he is taken to the river to bathe in the mornings; which is a big tourist attraction
my friend and great photographer Conrad
beautiful rock formations all over Hampi

_MG_2322  _MG_2454 _MG_2470_MG_2389_MG_2329_MG_2265_MG_2268On my last day I met Swetha, a very nice Indian girl from Hyderabad.  She was traveling on her own; definitely not your typical Indian girl.  You usually don’t see single Indian girls out and about, especially traveling across the country on their own.  I was so impressed by this girl.  Her dream is to see experience new cultures and live in different countries.  We hit it off right away and she took me to see the rice paddies and the dam near Hampi on her motorcycle.   You always want to meet the locals and learn about the places you are in directly from them but as you can imagine this is not always easy.  They just see you as yet another tourist.  So it is always great when you actually find a local that takes an interest in you.  We had a great day together!


My next stop was GOA, a state further north on the coast known for its great beaches.  This is where I had planned to meet my friend Ghani whom I had first met seven years ago in Mexico and had not seen since.  I took my first sleeper bus ever in India; which is quite popular with budget travelers.  It was a very bumpy twelve hour bus ride.  We arrived to the village at around 4:00 am and all of the businesses and hotels reception offices were closed so we had to wait on the beach until sunrise to find a place to stay.  Ghani had already pre-booked a hotel but unfortunately the agent that he used had changed his reservation the night before to a different town called Palolem, three hours south from where I was.  I decided to take a break from traveling and spend a day seeing Arambol before taking a taxi to reach Palolem.  Arambol is known as the party beach in Goa, it is full of people, mostly tourists from Russia.  The beach is very active with tons of people sun bathing, swimming, playing music, doing yoga, etc.  At night it turns into a big party with a drum circle and a big souvenir market in the middle of the beach.

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It is unfortunate that there are so many stray cows all around India.  They are always rummaging through garbage bins and sometimes stealing food from people.

It was great seeing Ghani and spending time together again.  We had a few days of rest, peace, meditation and relaxation on the beach.  Hopefully our paths will cross again in the future.  

Ghani doing his yoga asana at sunset
and the cows are back
my friend Ghani

After Goa, I took a flight to Madurai and then a taxi ride of three hours to go to Bodhi Zendo for some Zen meditation.  See my previous post for more on this.  

My last stop in India after Bodhi Zendo was Tamil Nadu,  starting with Pondicherry.  I took another sleeper bus to Pondicherry; which was very bumpy and I barely slept.  We arrived in the town at 4:00 am and it was completely dead but the rickshaw driver was nice enough to call the guesthouse and ask them to open their gate.  I had to negotiate my stay from that very early hour until 7:30 am the following day.  During the day I did a tour of the city, first beginning with the Sri Aurobindo ashram where we were able to visit the samadhi where the tomb of both Sri Aurobindo and the Mother, the founders of the ashram and Auroville (see previous post), the library and some of the common areas. I stayed a while here to meditate as it was a nice and quiet setting and I intend to keep my Zen practice alive after Bodhi Zendo. Pondicherry is a large French colony in India with some beautiful wide streets, colonial villas and fancy boutiques.  You can find a lot of French expats living there.  This is a stop for many people between Auroville and Chennai.  I ended up meeting these super nice girls from Colombia Camila, Sofia and Paola and spent time with them seeing Auroville and the Matrimandir (see previous post).  It is always great to meet people from Colombia; which is very rare while traveling, specially in India.  It always brings me a lot of joy to meet people from my home country.  

regular sight of sadhus sleeping on sidewalks
inside a Hindu temple in Pondicherry

After I left Auroville and headed back to Pondicherry in a rickshaw to take a bus to Mamallapurai, about two hours south of Chennai.  This was to be my last stop in India before heading to Chennai to take a flight out to Vietnam.  This town is quite touristy but very quaint and relaxing.  It is filled with a ton of souvenir shops, seafood restaurants and ayurvedic massage places.  I made it a point to have my favorite Indian meals one last time.   I also tried an ayurvedic treatment called Shirodhara; which consists of a constant stream of warm medicated oil poured onto the forehead.  This  is highly effective to remove mental stress and anxiety. It is helpful in insomnia, migraine headaches, hypertension, and various neurological disorders.

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beautiful and relaxing

I feel nostalgic about leaving India.  The South has given me so many wonderful experiences and so many opportunities for spiritual work.  I am most thankful for the amazing, wise and highly spiritual people that I met during these two months.  You have taught me a lot and I am thankful for every moment we spent together- James, Kelly, Jake, Manfred, Kate, Ghani, James, Andrea, Swetha, Conrad, Sofia, Camila, Paola, Petra, and a few others…   much love to all of you!

I am not done with you India… until next time!  🙂


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